tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post2802029795953080614..comments2024-02-09T20:29:11.791+00:00Comments on Blogging Beautifully: Don't Judge Me.Helen - Blogging Beautifullyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14662089909399970493noreply@blogger.comBlogger58125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-75197992962442231902015-11-03T19:13:28.359+00:002015-11-03T19:13:28.359+00:00Hahaha I feel like this was aimed at someone lol b...Hahaha I feel like this was aimed at someone lol but shall not judge and assume!! Man I eat loads of choc, my kids rarely kept socks on as toddlers and yeah I am forever learning as a mother. I have to remind myself sometimes when peoples comments cut me, that I have only being doing this motherhood thing for 5 years and thats really not long at all. x #bestandworst Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07502076118907799719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-5479083165418125462015-10-30T20:12:29.160+00:002015-10-30T20:12:29.160+00:00*knodding* manically in agreement, Well put and co...*knodding* manically in agreement, Well put and could not.agree more Xthisiswhereitisathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00562590012796034024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-49922797115796830662015-10-30T08:17:19.417+00:002015-10-30T08:17:19.417+00:00Great post, Thanks for sharing, if everyone were m...Great post, Thanks for sharing, if everyone were more focused on worrying about themselves and how to be better they would have a lot less time to be judgy of everyone else! - Hang in there #bestandworst Charlottehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06668706650872208304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-22594050657466974212015-10-30T06:43:10.932+00:002015-10-30T06:43:10.932+00:00I am hearing you!!! I must be more assertive and c...I am hearing you!!! I must be more assertive and confident in my own decision making as a mother. Sometimes I am my own worst judge. Thanks for having me at #bestandworstAnnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15323767517508360778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-65117286710884965852015-10-30T03:17:09.782+00:002015-10-30T03:17:09.782+00:00It's never happened to me personally, but I th...It's never happened to me personally, but I think shaming a mom for formula feeding her infant is just obscene. It makes my skin crawl with anger that other moms feel justified in preaching about how breast is best and insinuating that moms who use formula are lesser mothers. It's just disgusting. I'm glad you got your rant out...sometimes, that's all you need:) #bestandworstAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-16025522026450181942015-10-29T22:15:00.548+00:002015-10-29T22:15:00.548+00:00Great post. And saying 'no' more often is ...Great post. And saying 'no' more often is a great idea. Sometimes I get overwhelmed but it's mainly my own fault! Becky x #bestandworstBecky at PinksCharminghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17783958836744265789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-3125496250202572292015-10-29T19:27:31.113+00:002015-10-29T19:27:31.113+00:00Definitely hate being judged on housework and bein...Definitely hate being judged on housework and being late.... thanks for hosting. #bestandworst The Little Book of Sickhttp://lou15a.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-43843502472735461512015-10-29T17:05:36.320+00:002015-10-29T17:05:36.320+00:00Totally agree, there is so much judgment from peer...Totally agree, there is so much judgment from peers and fellow mothers around, and it's really tiresome and unnecessary. What happened to sisterhood? Glad you got it off your chest, and well said it was, too! x #bestandworstIsabella @Fairies and Pirateshttp://www.fairiesandpirates.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-1452899849730408042015-10-29T16:57:53.447+00:002015-10-29T16:57:53.447+00:00Well said and great quote too, I really struggle w...Well said and great quote too, I really struggle with people being judgemental especially like you say about not wanting our entire weekend choc-a-block therefore saying no to things sometimes.People don't seem to think 'we want to spend some time at home' is a valid excuse. #bestandworst xxMummy in Traininghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13333688676624192125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-76392120484524208402015-10-29T13:21:28.883+00:002015-10-29T13:21:28.883+00:00Brilliant!Wish people would just let you get on wi...Brilliant!Wish people would just let you get on with it,surely as long as your kids are safe and fed you should be free to parent the way you see fit?! x #bestandworstAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-62830604417801605332015-10-29T00:15:01.156+00:002015-10-29T00:15:01.156+00:00I think judging is a natural thing that few people...I think judging is a natural thing that few people, if they're honest, don't do. But I think there are significant differences in how people do it - some people think it themselves, maybe say it to people close to them who they know will not say it to anyone else, while some people just say it to the person. &, to be honest, that is probably a thing that really bugs me. I'm not so bothered that people judge (I mean, I am in that it makes me feel insecure, but less so that I think they shouldn't), but it really annoys me when people are blunt, tactless & judgmental to your face, and then claim they are just 'being honest' and it is unhealthy not to be honest. & I always just think that's such bull. It is not always best to say whatever you think, and, funnily enough, the people who do are nearly always ones who actually take it really badly if anyone does the same to them. #bestandworstAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13006727330831002627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-12949852354731598502015-10-28T22:28:02.728+00:002015-10-28T22:28:02.728+00:00Great post, we all need a great ranty vent sometim...Great post, we all need a great ranty vent sometimes. Especialy when JudgyMcJudgersons are involved!! :D #bestandworstPinkPearBearhttps://pinkpearbear.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-34880437701096873352015-10-28T21:16:48.458+00:002015-10-28T21:16:48.458+00:00Ahh this is great, and so true. It would be nice i...Ahh this is great, and so true. It would be nice if people weren't judgemental, I don't know how judgemental people actually are but I know I always feel judged! You are on to a total winner with Wine Wednesday by the way, I am so in! #bestandworstAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02543713367793171575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-50378720783288610222015-10-28T21:04:04.775+00:002015-10-28T21:04:04.775+00:00It's funny, before I was a parent myself I had...It's funny, before I was a parent myself I had so many ideas about what I would and would not do....and then real life happened and they all went out the window! Life would be better indeed if no one judged.Minhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01401818095168588512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-46208108669240905192015-10-28T20:55:20.613+00:002015-10-28T20:55:20.613+00:00Great post thanks for hosting #bestandworst Great post thanks for hosting #bestandworst Nigelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05381709704931990827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-67292100407352155842015-10-28T19:31:25.200+00:002015-10-28T19:31:25.200+00:00Amen to all of that! I agreed with every single se...Amen to all of that! I agreed with every single sentiment. I am the idealistic person who would love to live in a world where no one judges anyone else, and we make the world a better place by being kinder to one another. I once hung out a lot with someone from my antenatal class. She made it quite clear that she wanted a labour without pain relief. She wanted her children to be exclusively breast fed, and only eat organic food. She felt that baby weight should be lost instantly. I respected her decisions, but she could not do the same for me! It got to the point where I couldn't stand her judgy comments about the non organic food my children were eating, and how much salt it may contain. I didn't want to hear that I would be giving my children ADHD by letting them watch tv. And telling me that her husband thought formula was the same as giving my baby poison, when I had failed at breast feeding, was really when I should've cut her out of my life. I persevered with her, trying to be the better person, but I can no longer take the judging! Thank you, you've inspired my own rant! And wine on as many nights a week as you see fit is ok with me! And I love the Bob Marley quote.<br />#bestandworst This Mum's Lifehttp://www.thismumslife.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-64102975028490741342015-10-28T18:20:45.035+00:002015-10-28T18:20:45.035+00:00Very well said! Nobody has the right to judge us.....Very well said! Nobody has the right to judge us...we have all the freedom to do what we want without worrying how other people say or feel about it. I love that quote! #bestandworstAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07225437588172946916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-69644248883937140292015-10-28T17:55:48.510+00:002015-10-28T17:55:48.510+00:00Back from #bestandworst. Still agree with all you ...Back from #bestandworst. Still agree with all you say xxTracey Abrahamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15645995238253581548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-83952490019994079612015-10-28T17:07:25.506+00:002015-10-28T17:07:25.506+00:00Back again! Thanks for hosting #bestandworst :)
De...Back again! Thanks for hosting #bestandworst :)<br />DebbieRandom Musingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05298522848171348845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-19167165782747068872015-10-28T16:08:29.684+00:002015-10-28T16:08:29.684+00:00Well said! #bestandworstWell said! #bestandworstCrummy Mummyhttp://www.crummymummy.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-58406313836177941722015-10-28T14:02:42.907+00:002015-10-28T14:02:42.907+00:00Firstly, wine Wednesday is definitely ok. In our h...Firstly, wine Wednesday is definitely ok. In our house we call it Wet Wednesday which follows Tipple Tuesday ;-) <br />One of my friends advised me when I was expecting "don't judge anyone" it has stuck with me and remained the best parenting advice I have ever received. We're all just trying to find a way to make it work and keep our children alive and healthy. http://www.frillyprettythings.com #bestandworstAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03848618140402285405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-30771662700240453212015-10-28T12:38:02.802+00:002015-10-28T12:38:02.802+00:00What a great post! Wine on Wednesday - especially ...What a great post! Wine on Wednesday - especially loved this! We should be nurtured, not judged. #bestandworst Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15096315867430850466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-19756825273589705182015-10-28T11:43:06.105+00:002015-10-28T11:43:06.105+00:00I think being judged on our parenting is the worst...I think being judged on our parenting is the worst one, especially by strangers. We know our kids inside and out, no one else. #bestandworstAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-38218285753255477292015-10-28T11:31:28.118+00:002015-10-28T11:31:28.118+00:00Absolutely, we do naturally judge I think but it&#...Absolutely, we do naturally judge I think but it's how you act after. Reminding yourself it's not your business, that you don't know all the circumstances, or just that others choose to do things differently than you before launching in! #bestandworstMummyTravelshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12627178134463451452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-960129283945951675.post-35199001508256341552015-10-28T10:52:03.981+00:002015-10-28T10:52:03.981+00:00I agree, every parent is doing the best they can d...I agree, every parent is doing the best they can do at that moment in time regardless of how it may look on the outside. I am guilty of judging others just as much as everyone else though I guess. I'm ashamed to say sometimes it just happens and I have to remind myself I do not know the whole story. #bestandworstAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01920528860832053627noreply@blogger.com