Supporting a Loved One who has Lost a Limb.

How to help a loved one who has lost a limb

The loss of a limb sounds terrifying. Sadly for many people, it's a sobering reality. The reasons behind limb loss are extensive, however, one of the most common causes is military service. Losing a limb can evoke all kinds of emotions in a person, from anger and frustration to grief and complete devastation. Therefore it’s important for those closely linked with victims to provide as much support as possible, both physically and emotionally. 

Not only may your loved one have to deal with a complex grieving process that comes with losing a limb, but they're likely to be discharged from military service due to their injuries. Creating a whole host of other emotional struggles and adjustments. It's daunting, to say the least, and watching a loved one go through such emotional and physical difficulties can be tough. So, with this in mind, I've gathered some simple guidance for how you can help a loved one who has lost a limb.

Ensure they’re receiving their benefits

No longer serving in the army due to illness can throw financial issues on an already pressurised situation. Thankfully, there is help available to military veterans who have returned from service with injuries. The veterans disability calculator from cck-law will provide you with information about receiving your entitlement. This entire process can be confusing, which is why using tools like the one provided will make matters easier.  

Listen

Not everyone wants to hear that “everything will be ok”, it makes their feelings of hopelessness and grief seem invalid. It also doesn’t make you look approachable. Being able to provide someone with a listening ear, where they can vent freely without being judged or babied, can help them feel in control and able to manage their feelings. 

Educate yourself

There’s a lot of material out there that can help you get to grips and understand the kind of injury that your loved one has, the pain that they might be in and the emotional rollercoaster that they’ll be experiencing. Educating yourself will help you to see things from their point of view and tailor your assistance and support accurately. 

Don’t take it personally

Your loved one may experience feelings of anger and resentment; they also may be in pain. It’s often loved ones that bear the brunt of these emotions. But you need to remember not to take it personally. Remain calm and try to put yourself in their situation.