Friday 7 August 2015

Decisions.


Wow what a week it's been. My head is quite literally in a spin. We have been making some pretty big huge decisions over the last few weeks and they are life changing. OK that sounds a tad dramatic but they definitely aren't small decisions! 

The trouble is that both my husband and I are probably THE most indecisive people ever. At times it verges on ridiculous that we can never seem to make a decision.Quite often our conversation goes a little like this:

Me: 'What do you fancy for tea?'

Him: 'Don't know, you decide'

Me: 'I'm not fussed, you choose'

Him: 'Nah you choose'

Me: 'FFS, why do I always have to make the decision?'

Him: 'You don't'.

Back to square one with still no decision made. This is a common occurrence for many a discussion no matter what it is. If it isn't deciding on tea it would be what to watch on the TV, what to do on the weekend or what came first the chicken or the bloody egg!

There was a similar situation a while ago when we were deciding on a new floor near our kitchen. What sort of wood should we choose??? Engineered wood flooring or something different? We knew we wanted tough and durable flooring which engineered wooden flooring is but it was the decision over what shade we would need to choose and whether we should just do one floor or the bathroom too! Erghh, another decision that was an effort to make.

It drives me round the bend, I'm sure that I did used to be quite decisive but these days I just can't seem to make executive decisions about anything. Both of us ummm and arr about things far too much and I really think we need to start making some more snappier decisions. 

Anyway, as always I digress. So we've made this decision. Firstly, it's amazing that we actually agreed on something and secondly that we actually made the decision reasonably quickly. It's something that we've been talking about for a very long time now but haven't really been in a position to do anything about it until now. I can't give too much away as it might still fall through (which is probably quite a big hint!) but until we are more certain that things are heading in the right direction I will divulge a bit more. 

We're excited, we're uncertain, we're nervous and we've no idea whether the decision that we've made is the best one or even the right one, but time will tell and another chapter in our life will hopefully begin.

Watch this space and wish us luck, keep your fingers crossed and hopefully we've made the right decision.........


The Reading Residence

Binky Linky

Domestic Momster

34 comments:

  1. I'm intrigued! Good luck and sending big #bloggerlove to you. Mel xx #momsterslink

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    1. Hopefully all will be revealed in due course, just don't want to jinx anything! x

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  2. Whatever it is.... you'll only fail if you fail to try! Good Luck #binkylnky

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  3. Hopefully everything will work out! I will keep my fingers crossed

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  4. Good luck.
    My husband and I can be a bit like that about decisions although more about what tv show to watch! I hope it all works out for you.
    #momsterslinkup

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  5. Haha, this is so like me. I cannot ever decide on anything!
    Your new decision sounds super exciting though, can't wait to hear more xx

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    1. Annoying isn't it, seems to get worse the older we get too ha! x

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  6. Wishing you the best of luck!
    My fella and I are rubbish at decisions too....lol

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  7. Ooh, sounds exciting! I will definitely be watching this space and look forward to hearing more :) Thanks for sharing with #WotW x

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    1. Thanks for hosting Jocelyn, hopefully exciting news to share soon X

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  8. Hope it all works out for you x #wotw

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  9. We are so like this. Every night that its the conversation about tea time! I hope all works out :-) xx

    http://www.mummandmore.blogspot.com

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  10. Goodluck with whatever it is. #binkylinky

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  11. Good luck, hope it all works out ok. Thanks for linking up to the #BinkyLinky

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  12. Sounds like exciting times are ahead for you. I hope it all goes tonplan.
    #blinkylinky

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  13. Oh sounds so very intriguing! Whatever it is, and no doubt I'll get to find out later (us bloggers aren't very good at keeping secrets!) fingers crossed and best of luck xx
    #WoTW

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    1. No we aren't are we haha, I'm dying to write about stuff but don't want to jinx anything X

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  14. Oh this sounds really interesting can't wait to hear more about it!
    I am crap at making decisions and my husband and I often have a similar conversation hehe

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  15. Good luck and hope all works out thanks for linking to the Binkylinky

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  16. My husband and I must ask each other daily what we should do for dinner. It drives me quite crazy really and I too seem to always be the one that comes up with the answer. Thank you so much for linking with #momsterslink.

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    1. It is so annoying, I always tend to cook the same things too when I can't make a decision! x

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  17. Oooh it's a good one I'm sure lovely! Eek xx #binkylinky

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